The Real Reason Igor Shutencov AKA Justin Broke Up With Nikki Exotika
90 Day Fiancé star Igor Shutencov AKA Justin Moldova is revealing the real reason behind his split with Nikki Exotika. Nikki from Hoboken, New Jersey went to Chişinău, Moldova in 2006 to meet her then boyfriend who she realized was cheating on her. Nikki was 30 at the time and met the 20-year-old Justin on a friendship website but didn’t tell Justin she was transgender. Justin proposed to Nikki two years later, and Justin came to the U.S. on a K-1 visa. Within two weeks of his arrival, the couple started having fights.
During one such argument, Nikki accidentally told Justin she used to be a man. Justin was traumatized. Justin took several years to come to terms with Nikki’s sexual identity. The couple reconciled 15 years later. Nikki applied for Justin’s visa again and went to meet him in Moldova. There, Justin admitted that he had slept with other women up until he and Nikki got engaged. Justin also suggested the idea of a threesome. However, Justin convinced Nikki to stay engaged even though he struggled to accept Nikki was a woman. Nikki and Justin parted ways on a happy note.
Justin Claimed He Wanted Stability In The Relationship
Nikki arrived to do an interview two weeks after she came home from Moldova. While there, Nikki received a text from Justin and broke down in tears. Nikki was asked if she wanted to go home, but she agreed to continue filming her interview. Amid crying, Nikki revealed she’d gotten into a bad fight with Justin because he had not had a job and Nikki had been supporting him with money the whole time. Nikki had sent Justin money whenever he needed help. Nikki sent him $2000 and accused him of using her for money. Nikki said Justin expected her to squash the argument as usual, but she didn’t.
“Given all the circumstances, I have come to a sad conclusion that our relationship cannot continue,” Justin wrote.
Justin sent Nikki a long text message to break up with her. Justin wrote that he had compromised and sacrificed his own interest by shocking his parents and everyone around him. Justin said he had sacrificed his status and dignity to be with Nikki. He wrote that he couldn’t continue doing it. He wanted “control” his own life now and, in order to rectify the situation, needed to split with Nikki. She expected him to at least Facetime her.
Nikki said she was beyond broken as she was planning a future with Justin. She thought Justin would call her to Moldova to talk to her and that she deserved more than a text. Nikki had sent Justin a text asking him to take her back and give her a last chance. “You’re my everything,” Nikki told Justin but he ignored her text. During the Tell All, Justin got to tell the world his side of the story. Justin said that after Nikki went back to America, they got into a big argument. He claimed Nikki didn’t have any patience and attacked him.
“I can’t wake up every morning with my first thought being, “How do I fix this relationship?”
Justin said the distance and time gave him a chance to rebuild himself. He felt a wave of energy the next day. Justin said he finally felt free. Justin admitted that while he didn’t feel trapped in the relationship, they broke up 10 times in a day, and he was looking to put a stop to what was happening. Justin revealed he wanted stability. Nikki accused Justin of playing the victim.
Justin Revealed Why He Broke Up With Nikki Via Text
Next, Justin was asked to explain why he sent Nikki a text instead of facing her while he broke up with her. Justin faced a language barrier but tried telling the cast that Nikki always spoke over him whenever he tried to say anything. Nikki’s friend and cast member Ashley Michelle asked Justin why he said that Nikki had “man vibes” Nikki was the woman he loved. Ashely reminded Justin that it was the “absolute biggest insult.” Justin said Ashley was spreading bad vibes during the Tell All. He said that if he feels “man vibes” he, tells.
Nikki said Justin took her on a two-year ride. Nikki revealed that after their split in the finale, she flew to Moldova again to meet Justin on his birthday. Nikki revealed that they made up after that. She said she had a romantic time and Justin made love to her. Justin also put the ring back on Nikki’s finger. Nikki confirmed that they were engaged again. She went back because she loved Justin and had history with him. “Justin, what was it that led up to you writing that text?” Shaun Robinson wanted to know. Justin revealed that Nikki had asked him about his ex-girlfriends.
Justin’s ex-girlfriend had reached out to Nikki on social media and told her that they met up several times. Nikki believed that Justin cheated on her after she applied for the K-1 visa. Justin insisted he was not cheating on Nikki because he was just using his hand to self-pleasure. Justin claimed he respected women and even chatted with his ex with respect. Justin said he wasn’t in love with Nikki at the moment because she was acting like his enemy and not his friend.
Justin Is Not Attracted To Trans Women
Clayton Clark observed that Justin was not attracted to trans women. “Do you think you are fully at ease with Nikki being a trans woman?” Shaun asked Justin. He said he was. Nikki spoke about Justin not being a “real man” because he was not standing by her side as a king despite her doing everything that she needed. Nikki realized that she was never a queen for Justin. “I’m trying,” Justin assured Nikki. Justin continued that if Nikki tried to behave “more like a lady,” everything between them would improve.
Did Justin & Nikki Get Back Together After The Tell All?
“No, I don’t think we are in relationship at the moment,” Justin declared. He said that the door was “still open,” for them in the relationship. Nikki’s mom, Myrna, joined the cast during the Tell All to ask Justin if he was ever in love with her daughter. Myrna confronted Justin about him, saying that he was not gay, and he was not attracted to trans women, so he couldn’t live with that in his head for the rest of his life. “That mean I’m straight,” Justin said before adding that Nikki was his “exception.”
In the end, Nikki decided to pull Justin’s K-1 visa. Justin still held on to the hope that Nikki would come to him and ask him to take her back if she wanted a healthy relationship. Nikki was shown sending an email to her attorney about halting Justin’s K-1 visa process. Nikki and Justin still appear to be broken up according to what they post on social media. Nikki deleted their joint Barbie and Ken Instagram account which had sparked their split rumors, even though the 90 Day Fiancé couple still follows each other on social media.
